Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Check His Ass! 8 Signs Your Man Is Bitter

I was browsing the internet and came across an interesting article on YeahSheSaidIt.com about some tell-tale signs your man is bitter. They say that females tend to harvest bitterness from previous experiences, mainly relationships more so than men (debate on that), but we all know men carry that around as well. Here are some signs your dealing with a man with some bitterness issues. Feel free to comment and/or add what you think are signs.

1. He talks about an ex that burned him or did him wrong but she was also the love of his life.
Yeah this is the guy who is always yapping about his ex-girl. When you ask him are you over her? He swears he is but then proceeds to continue to talk ish about her on your dates with him. To the point where you want to yell: I don’t want to hear about this chick!

2. He does not want to do the simple things for you.
He fears that any form of him giving in the slightest would mean that he is engaging in the act of giving of himself. He does not want to give too much of himself or anything at all to any woman because some chick from his past used him. So now he barely wants to hold the door open for you. Don’t let the door hit you in the face girl.

3. He tries to devalue the impact that a good woman can have in his life.

This is the type that has a grudge against all women and refuses to believe that there are any good women in the world. So, this gives him the freedom to treat chicks any way they please guilt free.

 4. Does not want to spend any money on you.

Whenever you guys go out on a date, he refuses to pay for you. In fact he won’t even take you to a nice restaurant. You better have your own McDonalds money girl.

5. The whole time you are with him he is guarded.
He does not want to open up to you in the slightest during a conversation. He has an uptight demeanor and is making it very difficult for you to learn anything about him. Now you have to determine whether this is his natural personality or a part of his defense mechanism.

6. Everything you say he questions. 

He questions you all the time! As if you are a liar or are sneaky. Why? Because in his past he has dealt with sneaky, lying ass women so now he has been bamboozled into believing that all women are that way.

7. He says comments like “I’m not dating a Black/Latin/White woman they are too… (insert negative stereotype). 

He has obviously had a bad experience or experiences with a certain demographic of woman and from here on out, any other woman who even slightly fits that criteria equates to the woman who scorned him.

8. When he wants you to prove yourself to him over and over and over.

He is waiting for you to do some scandalous ish to him that some other chick did to him in the past. So meanwhile, you have to go above and beyond to show him that you are not trying to play him and are being sincere. Sounds like a lot of damn work doesn’t it. Because it is.


Ms. Ebony said...

I agree with all of this.

Crystal M. said...

Number 6 so true!

Anonymous said...

this is funny because my friend whose a guy and i were talking about something similar not too long ago

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